Bride: Paarull JS Bakshi
Groom: Vijay Saini
Pictures Courtesy: Nick Siu Photography & Vancity Filmer
Q. How did you two meet, and what was your first impression of each other?
We’ve known each other for several years and crossed paths at various events over the years. I was immediately drawn to Vijay’s calm demeanor and that friendly, welcoming smile of his. When we finally started talking, I discovered his warmth and kindness, and we clicked over so many shared interests—it was an instant connection, with his laugh matching my sometimes bubbly energy.
Q. Can you share the story of your proposal/engagement? Was it a grand surprise or a quiet, intimate moment?
I had a slight inkling Vijay might propose, but I had no idea he’d choose that exact day or do it in such a heartfelt way. It was just a casual trip, nothing planned to look suspicious. When we reached a specific location, he got down on one knee, and my heart skipped a beat. The mix of excitement, nervousness, and pure love in his eyes made it unforgettable—I said yes without a second thought!
Q. Describe your wedding day for us. Did you have a favorite part of the wedding?
Our wedding day was a dream come true, filled with love, laughter, and endless joy. The ceremony felt so intimate, surrounded by our closest family and friends. Seeing Vijay’s face light up as I walked down the aisle took my breath away, and the rituals, vows, and exchanging rings were like stepping into a beautiful, shared journey. As an event planner myself, I poured my heart into every detail—the color schemes, the layout, the subtle decorations all came together to make it feel like something out of a fairy tale. My absolute favorite part was the Saptapadi, taking those seven steps with Vijay around the sacred fire. It was emotional yet meaningful, symbolizing a commitment. Watching our families and friends celebrate together created memories we’ll cherish forever. We’re so grateful for everyone’s love and support—and the weather gods cooperated for a perfect day!
Q. How did you choose the wedding attire for both of you? Were there any special considerations or sentimental elements?
Choosing my wedding attire was such a special experience. I wanted something that blended my personal style with our cultural heritage, so I tried on countless outfits before falling in love with a stunning lehenga that was a shade of pink. The intricate embroidery, vibrant colors, and the beautiful story behind the piece made me feel like a princess. I also helped Vijay select his outfit to ensure we complemented each other perfectly—he went for a classic achkan that was elegant, timeless, and totally his style. It was all about balancing tradition with a modern touch for both of us.
Q. Were any traditions or customs particularly important to include in your wedding?
Absolutely, traditions were at the heart of our ceremony. We started with the Ganesh Puja to invoke Lord Ganesha’s blessings for a smooth celebration. The Mehndi ceremony was another highlight—my hands were adorned with simple yet pretty henna designs, and it was a beautiful way to bring our families and friends together in celebration. Of course, the Phere and Saptapadi were non-negotiable; walking around the sacred fire and taking those seven steps with Vijay felt like the ultimate symbol of our commitment.
Q. Looking back, is there anything you would have done differently?
Honestly, I wouldn’t change a thing. As both the bride and the planner, I tried my best to manage everything. Every detail I envisioned came to life exactly as I’d hoped. Vijay thinks I did a great job too, so I feel very happy about that. We’re both thrilled with how perfectly the day unfolded.
Q. How does it feel to be married, and what are you most looking forward to in this new chapter together?
It certainly feels different, but a good different! There is something beautiful about sharing your life with someone. We are looking forward to creating good memories while continuing to do well in our careers. This is a goal that both of us share. We share a lot of common interests, so it’s always fun for us to spend time together.
Q. If you could give one piece of advice to couples planning their wedding, what would it be?
Enjoy every moment of the journey! Planning can feel overwhelming, but it’s such a special time—cherish it, lean on your loved ones, and keep the focus on the love you share. Prioritize what truly matters to you as a couple, communicate openly, support each other, and most importantly, have fun. The wedding is just the start of your beautiful life together.
