On a recent weekend getaway, I stumbled upon a scene that refreshingly felt out of place in our screen-obsessed times—A group of ten women, all in their 60s, playing antakshari at the resort’s gazebo. The vibe was cheerful; laughter echoed through the air as they cheerfully sang old Hindi film songs. None of them were glued to their phones and were completely immersed in the moment, simply enjoying each other’s company.
Marriage has long been framed as the ultimate milestone, a finish line that signals arrival into adulthood, stability, and success. However, today, for many, that narrative is being questioned, reshaped, and, in some cases, completely rewritten. Across conversations, a common thread emerges: marriage is no longer the end goal, but one of many possible paths in a much broader, more personal journey.
Growing up as a practicing Sikh woman in the Lower Mainland, Vaisakhi has played a pivotal role in shaping who I am and giving me the confidence to own my identity without fear of repercussion. For me, Vaisakhi is far more than a cultural or religious festival; it is a form of collective resilience and an example of multiculturalism at work. It is an affirmation of identity, community, and belonging on a scale that is truly unimaginable unless you have had the opportunity to experience it firsthand.
As we enter the season of Vaisakhi, there lies a timeless principle that urges us to look beyond ourselves. At its core, Sarbat da Bhala (welfare of all) is more than just wishing well for others. It is an acknowledgement of our divine oneness and of the idea that by lifting others, we are, in turn, lifting ourselves.
When aiding those who are in need, even the smallest acts can have a profound impact. As Sikhs, we are guided by the teachings of our Gurus to uplift and support those around us. Since the very beginning, the Sikh community has stood up for justice, compassion, and the protection of all people regardless of their identity, status, or circumstance.
