Tuesday, February 3, 2026
ADVT 
India

India's First Gay Marriage Ad: Mother Places Matrimonial Ad, Seeks 'Vegetarian' Groom For Gay Son!

Darpan News Desk IANS, 20 May, 2015 11:14 AM
    It was an innocuous matrimonial advertisement in a newspaper like millions others – a boy wanting to get married and settle down.
     
    Only, this Mumbai man - Harrish Iyer (36) - is seeking a suitable proposal from another man!
     
    In what is billed as perhaps India's first, Harrish's mother Padma (58), placed the ad in Mumbai tabloid, Mid-Day, on Tuesday - and it caught wild fire on social media networks.
     
    "Seeking 25-40, Well-placed, Animal-loving, Vegetarian GROOM for my son (36, 5'11") who works with an NGO, Caste No Bar (Though IYER preferred)," proclaimed the unique, trendsetting ad.
     
    While one response screamed "Way to go Aunty Padma, Very courageous, Mid-Day," another lamented "Disappointing to see preference based on caste". A a third compensated with "Big Hugs" to the 58-year old prospective mother-in-law, Padma.
     
    Waiting in the wings for a suitable male match, Harrish is no stranger to name and fame, though his mother justified the ad contending that the concerns of a gay offspring's mother are the same as any other parent.
     
     
    A well-known LGBT activist, he runs the NGO United Way of Mumbai and was listed No.71 in the World Pride Powerlist 2013 - the only Indian in the coveted list - an honour he shares with prominent gays like Sir Elton John, Martina Navratilova, Ricky Martin and the like.
     
    The previous year (2012), he also appeared and campaigned vocally for the rights of sexual minorities in Aamir Khan's "Satyamev Jayate" show.
     
    With the reactions pouring in from all quarters - and even the global media jumping on the bandwagon - the Iyer mother-son duo is confident that a match would be soon possible.
     
    They also plan the marriage as a traditional, ritualistic, vegetarian affair, though they are also keeping all options open for the probable groom's choices and sentiments.
     
    Getting the ad published was not a cakewalk for Padma in a country where homosexuality is still illegal and a social taboo.
     
    After most leading media houses rejected it, Mid-Day said 'I Do' to Padma, with editor Sachin Kalbag throwing his weight behind the venture on grounds of always supporting equal rights for everyone, regardless of religions, caste, sexual orientation, colour and the like.

    MORE India ARTICLES

    ISIS 'Death Threat' To Art of Living Founder Ravi Shankar

    ISIS 'Death Threat' To Art of Living Founder Ravi Shankar
    Art of Living (AoL) Foundation on Saturday claimed that its founder Sri Ravi Shankar received death threat from international terror organisation ISIS during his present visit to Malaysia.

    ISIS 'Death Threat' To Art of Living Founder Ravi Shankar

    Saina Nehwal Makes History, Becomes 1st Indian Woman To Become World No. 1 In Badminton

    Saina Nehwal Makes History, Becomes 1st Indian Woman To Become World No. 1 In Badminton
    After being assured of the World No.1 spot, Olympic bronze medal winning shuttler Saina Nehwal said on Saturday that she can't believe she has reached the summit.

    Saina Nehwal Makes History, Becomes 1st Indian Woman To Become World No. 1 In Badminton

    Gurgaon Girl Aditi Arya Crowned Miss India

    Gurgaon Girl Aditi Arya Crowned Miss India
    Reigning Miss India Koyal Rana, on Saturday, enthroned her successor Aditi with the crown made by PC Jewellers. The first and second runners-up were Aafreen Rachel Vaz and Vartika Singh respectively.

    Gurgaon Girl Aditi Arya Crowned Miss India

    India Close To Having Its Own Satellite Navigation System, Puts Fourth Navigation Satellite Into Orb

    India Close To Having Its Own Satellite Navigation System, Puts Fourth Navigation Satellite Into Orb
    India successfully put its fourth navigation satellite into orbit in copy book style on Saturday, bringing the country a step closer to having its own satellite navigation system.

    India Close To Having Its Own Satellite Navigation System, Puts Fourth Navigation Satellite Into Orb

    In Aam Aadmi Party, It Is Now War

    In Aam Aadmi Party, It Is Now War
    In clear signs that no more rapprochement was possible in the AAP, dissident leaders Prashant Bhushan and Yogendra Yadav on Friday launched a tirade against Delhi Chief Minister Arvind Kejriwal, whose supporters accused them of being virtual BJP agents.

    In Aam Aadmi Party, It Is Now War

    Indian Immigration Official Suspended For Sexually Harassing Passenger In Delhi

    Indian Immigration Official Suspended For Sexually Harassing Passenger In Delhi
    An immigration officer has been suspended for alleged verbal sexual harassment of a woman passenger who took a flight to Hong Kong on March 18 from Delhi, a home ministry official said on Friday.

    Indian Immigration Official Suspended For Sexually Harassing Passenger In Delhi