Monday, December 22, 2025
ADVT 
India

Vrindavan Widows Find Solace In Blue-Jacket Volunteers

Darpan News Desk IANS, 22 Sep, 2017 12:54 PM
  • Vrindavan Widows Find Solace In Blue-Jacket Volunteers
Abandoned by her family, an elderly and wrinkled woman lies crumpled on a hospital bed here, maggots falling off one of her decaying hands.
 
The Ramakrishna Mission Hospital says the woman was found on a street. She was in terrible agony when she was admitted. Every day, as nurses and staff clean her hands, the maggots drop from soggy flesh.
 
The anonymous woman is expected to survive. But it will be a long road to recovery.
 
For now she gets daily visits from activists aligned to a spiritual group who, since starting work on a modest scale in this Hindu holy town in late 2014, now cater to the needs of around 4,000 destitute widows.
 
The volunteers, easily recognised by the blue jackets they wear, talk to her lovingly and assure her that she will get better.
 
The traditional attachment of poor Hindu widows to Vrindavan is well known. What is lesser known is the daily suffering most of them undergo.
 
Many have been dumped by their families or get irregular visits by those who still care for them. Although divinity was the reason they chose to come to Vrindavan from various parts of India, the struggle for basic needs makes life very difficult.
 
The suffering becomes acute when the women fall ill. That's when they realise the extent of their loneliness. Charitable institutions may provide free medical care but visiting crowded hospitals is a pain.
 
"The usual approach to help widows lay in collecting donations and giving them what they wanted," said Manjunath Kini, 50, who heads the Paramhansa Yogananda Public Charitable Trust.
 
"But such an approach lacked a long-term framework," Kini told IANS. "We have an approach that is more comprehensive, more sustainable and more need-based. We want to restore the women's divinity and dignity."
 
 
 
According to one count, Vrindavan, the land of Lord Krishna and located 140 km south of New Delhi, is home to some 4,000 Hindu widows. But others here say the number may be double, perhaps as high as 10,000.
 
Most are in ashrams run by religious bodies. Many live on their own, in small, dingy rooms. Almost everyone depends on charity for food and shelter. Long hours are spent in prayers and devotional music.
 
"Health issues are very, very important," Kini said. "Our primary focus is on the destitute."
 
The organisation's activists, with their distinct dark blue jackets, daily ferry, on e-rickshaws, the ailing widows to hospitals, help them to see the doctors and get medicines and then drop them back.
 
It is time consuming work. Most widows are in the 50s to 80s. A few are even in the 90s. The most frequent ailments are fever, fractures, monkey bites -- Vrindavan is overrun by monkeys -- and diabetes.
 
"We provide attendants round the clock," says Rajesh Kumar Pandey, Kini's colleague. "Without us, it will be near impossible for the elderly to go to the crowded hospitals."
 
Now and then, the activists also come across sickly and abandoned "sadhus".
 
One, reportedly from Udipi in Karnataka, was spotted in a drain, barely alive, suffering from multiple ailments, Kini said. He was rushed to a hospital but unfortunately died.
 
"Now that our work is well known, even locals who feel they have been left to fend for themselves by their families seek our help," Kini added.
 
Donations are used to buy utensils, food, bed box, linen, medicines, stove, groceries, buckets and worship items and much more for distribution to the widows.
 
"We visit widows every day, talk to them and see how they are doing and what help they need," Pandey told IANS. "We feel service to the poor and destitute is the best way to serve God."

MORE India ARTICLES

Punjab Chief Minister Capt Amarinder Asked To Vacate Government Bungalow In New Delhi

Punjab Chief Minister Capt Amarinder Asked To Vacate Government Bungalow In New Delhi
Punjab Chief Minister Capt Amarinder Singh has been asked to vacate a government bungalow that was allocated to him when he was a Member of Parliament by a Delhi court, which termed him as an “unauthorised occupant”.

Punjab Chief Minister Capt Amarinder Asked To Vacate Government Bungalow In New Delhi

Punjab Irrigation And Power Minister's Cook's Company Gave Loan Of Rs 50 Lakh To Rana Gurjit

Punjab Irrigation And Power Minister's Cook's Company Gave Loan Of Rs 50 Lakh To Rana Gurjit
The loan was given by the company in 2015-16 for “business purposes”. Bahadur was director of Flawless Traders till March 21, 2017.

Punjab Irrigation And Power Minister's Cook's Company Gave Loan Of Rs 50 Lakh To Rana Gurjit

Except Rhetoric, BJP Did Nothing To Defend Country: Manpreet Badal

Except Rhetoric, BJP Did Nothing To Defend Country: Manpreet Badal
Manpreet Singh Badal on Friday said that except rhetoric nothing had been done to defend the country in the past three years.

Except Rhetoric, BJP Did Nothing To Defend Country: Manpreet Badal

Indian Home Minister Rajnath Breaks Protocol, Hugs Brave BSF Jawan Suffering 85 PC Disability

Indian Home Minister Rajnath Breaks Protocol, Hugs Brave BSF Jawan Suffering 85 PC Disability
He hugged BSF constable Godhraj Meena who has suffered 85 per cent disability after militants' bullets hit him during an attack in Jammu and Kashmir's Udhampur in 2014.

Indian Home Minister Rajnath Breaks Protocol, Hugs Brave BSF Jawan Suffering 85 PC Disability

Drunk Russian National On Delhi Flight Tries To Open Door Mid-Air

Drunk Russian National On Delhi Flight Tries To Open Door Mid-Air
Aleksander Samokhvalov, a Russian national, was detained by the CISF after the plane landed in Delhi.

Drunk Russian National On Delhi Flight Tries To Open Door Mid-Air

Capt Amarinder-led Punjab Government Promulgates Ordinance To Repeal Khalsa University Act

Capt Amarinder-led Punjab Government Promulgates Ordinance To Repeal Khalsa University Act
The promulgation orders were issued here by Punjab Governor VP Singh Badnore under clause (1) of Article 213 of the Constitution of India, thereby implementing a decision taken in April by the state Cabinet.

Capt Amarinder-led Punjab Government Promulgates Ordinance To Repeal Khalsa University Act