Wednesday, May 6, 2026
ADVT 
Life

Expressing sorrow through song in hopes of helping others

Darpan News Desk, 20 Jul, 2017 10:21 AM
    Expressing emotions through song has always been a therapeutic outlet for Lower Mainland country song writer George Wolf, who says making music is what he does best.
     
    “It’s one of the few things I know how to do well,” says the lifelong artist and dad who lost his daughter last year when she died after using fentanyl-laced cocaine. Charly Ann Torikka, a 21-year-old Maple Ridge woman, had been attempting to get her life back on track when the tragedy happened.
     
    Almost a year after the fact, Wolf is able to turn his devastation into a loving memory of Charly and a drug awareness educational opportunity for others.
     
    In tribute to his daughter, Mr. Wolf has created a website, remembercharly.com, and a single, “Missing You”. The song itself is about letting people know it’s okay to continue missing a loved one even long after the initial loss. Wolf explains in the song and in person that many have tried to tell him to cheer up and move on but the reality is, grief knows no timeline. “It’s okay to continue missing someone. And it’s ok to be hurting,” says the dad who still remembers his daughter’s musical theatre days and her joy of singing. 
     
    Wolf’s single can be found on YouTube and is available for purchase on the website. Wolf explains he and those assisting with the project are raising funds for a bursary they will set up at Torikka’s high school – W.J Mouat Secondary in Abbotsford which has a New Beginnings program for teen moms. In addition, funds raised will go toward the B.C. Hospice Society and the families the society supports. There are also links to drug awareness programs run by the Abbotsford Police. 
     
    The latest 2017 report issued by the B.C. Coroners Service shows there were 129 suspected drug overdose deaths in May 2017 which equates to a 158 per cent increase over the number of deaths occurring in the same month the year before. In the first four months of 2017, there were 488 illicit drug overdose deaths in B.C., the report states further. If this pace continues, the number of overdose deaths in B.C. could surpass 1,400 by the end of the year. 

    MORE Life ARTICLES

    Music Videos Affect Teenaged Kids' Sexual Behaviour

    Music Videos Affect Teenaged Kids' Sexual Behaviour
    Parents may consider music videos a harmless pastime for their teenaged kids but they may negatively impact their sexual behaviour as they objectify women and promote sexual activities involving men, says a study.

    Music Videos Affect Teenaged Kids' Sexual Behaviour

    Teenagers Not Aware Of Privacy Risks On Social Media

    Teenagers Not Aware Of Privacy Risks On Social Media
    Most teenagers upload personal information on the social media networks like Facebook without considering the risks involved, says a study.

    Teenagers Not Aware Of Privacy Risks On Social Media

    Laughter Best Tactic To Woo Your Girl

    Laughter Best Tactic To Woo Your Girl
      Sharing a few good giggles and chuckles makes people more willing to tell others something personal about themselves, without even necessarily being aware that they are doing so, finds a new study.

    Laughter Best Tactic To Woo Your Girl

    Wealth Behind Decline In Number Of Reproducing Males

    Wealth Behind Decline In Number Of Reproducing Males
    Researchers have discovered a dramatic decline in genetic diversity in male lineages four to eight thousand years ago -- likely the result of the accumulation of material wealth.

    Wealth Behind Decline In Number Of Reproducing Males

    Sleep Well To Enhance Sexual Pleasure

    Sleep Well To Enhance Sexual Pleasure
    David Kalmbach from the University of Michigan Medical School has found that each additional hour of sleep increased the likelihood of sexual activity with a partner by 14 percent. 

    Sleep Well To Enhance Sexual Pleasure

    How Smartphones Are Ruining Sex Lives

    How Smartphones Are Ruining Sex Lives
    Have you been feeling dissatisfied with your sex life of late? Your smartphone may be to blame, suggests a study.

    How Smartphones Are Ruining Sex Lives