Saturday, December 27, 2025
ADVT 
Tech

LinkedIn Etiquette: Hurting the Network

By Nitin Kumar, 31 Jul, 2020 10:54 PM
  • LinkedIn Etiquette: Hurting the Network

LinkedIn, when used professionally and appropriately is an outstanding medium to create, exchange and amplify value.

 

 

LinkedIn is a platform for connecting with new people, building relationships, exchanging value, learning, and growing together. Sales and business can also be a byproduct of these relationships, but things get toxic when only pitching becomes the primary intent.


LinkedIn, when used professionally and appropriately is an outstanding medium to create, exchange and amplify value. The deeper your network, more the value potential but one must use the network effect and social capital effectively and judiciously. Given the advent of smart spam filters, AI based mail filtering etc., it has become harder for email driven sales reps and most people do not answer calls from numbers they do not recognize. This has created an aggressive new push towards pitching on LinkedIn.

 

What is the “Connect and Pitch” Tactic

It is not the primary intent of professionals who join LinkedIn to get pitched something, nor do they expect people to pitch something as soon as the connection is established.


In recent times, we have an increase in the “connect and pitch” tactic (COVID-19 is one driver) – these pitches have disengaged many genuine and interesting people from connecting with new people.
The “connect and pitch” artists are doing this in the name of social selling and many of these people would have had at least one interest through their outreach. The act itself conveys lack of understanding around social selling which really means connecting and building relationships rather than hard selling. People forget that the cost of that one success comes at a cost of alienating thousands of people, tarnishing their own and the company’s brand on social media.


Now, do not get me wrong - I am one of the biggest fans on LinkedIn. Personally, I am someone who has embraced and harnessed the platform and have driven over $10m in sales over several years owing to strength, breadth and depth of relationships built on this platform and this is why I personally loath the connect and pitch style. The messages in your inbox are also more intrusive (and time consuming) than banners, pop-ups, ads, bots and other distracting methods of online selling and attention seeking. There are other ways of engaging your network through thought leadership, content sharing, engagement in groups and virtual events – these methods are less intrusive, more engaging, provide value and demonstrate your expertise with a higher likelihood of converting sales.

Perception vs Reality of The “Connect and Pitch”


Contrary to their own belief, here is how perception and reality works on people:

√ It is the robocall equivalent on social media and most people get put off by spam

√ An intent signaling a genuine interest but an action with a straight pitch is immediate breach of trust

√ An unsolicited and untargeted pitch indicates lack of understanding around the evolution of sales as a discipline

√ A “connect and pitch” approach makes the product or service look like a commodity otherwise lacking traction

√ Without genuine intent to connect, know and understand the needs of an individual, the whole interaction is shallow and will not yield results

√ LinkedIn has built a brand, reputation, scale and promise on being a stellar platform to connect professionals and exchange value. When people deviate from this intent with the “connect and pitch” act, it comes across as a violation

√ If you cannot provide value, there is limited value in a shallow pitch Social capital is the new currency of business and one should not expend it without good reason, be honest, build genuine relationships, authentic connections and business will follow. There are no short cuts to sales without risking your personal brand.


ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Nitin Kumar is a two-decade veteran in the Hi-Tech industry. He is currently the CEO of Appnomic but played a variety of hands on executive roles ranging from CEO, Chief Growth Officer, Chief Transformation Officer, M&A Integration/Separation Leader, BU Head and Management Consulting Partner (corporate and PE portfolio companies). He is considered a business builder, thought leader and pioneer of many innovative approaches.

 

MORE Tech ARTICLES

Sea deposits to build your smart phone!

Sea deposits to build your smart phone!

Did you ever think the smart phone you are holding in your hands is made of some rare, scarce ear...

Sea deposits to build your smart phone!

Opinion: Trash is not ugly

Opinion: Trash is not ugly
How would it look if the worn out motherboard of a computer becomes your coaster or the headlight of a bike turns into your desk lamp or tyre tube used as a wallet and the door of an old refrigerator as the centre table of your room? This is not wild imagination but creative ways of using scrap and making it look chic.

Opinion: Trash is not ugly

Why Young techies are leaving Infosys in droves

Why Young techies are leaving Infosys in droves
The return of co-founder N.R. Narayana Murthy from retirement as executive chairman June 1, 2013 notwithstanding, a whopping 36,268 software engineers at medium and lateral levels left the IT bellwether during the last 12 months.

Why Young techies are leaving Infosys in droves

Get ready for smaller, better hard drives

Get ready for smaller, better hard drives
The hard drives in your computer could get even smaller as scientists have now discovered a novel technique to understand better the new properties that arise when two materials are put together.

Get ready for smaller, better hard drives

Obsessed with selfies? You may be mentally ill

Obsessed with selfies? You may be mentally ill
Taking lots of selfies is not an addiction but a symptom of Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD), psychologists warn.

Obsessed with selfies? You may be mentally ill

Are you among 'dead' on twitter?

Are you among 'dead' on twitter?
How frequently do you Tweet? You could well be one of the millions of ‘silent users’ who seldom tweet, a study says.

Are you among 'dead' on twitter?