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Wedding Story - Sajjal and Qasim

Darpan News Desk Darpan, 21 May, 2025 12:41 AM
  • Wedding Story - Sajjal and Qasim

Q1: How did you two meet, and what was your first impression of each other?

We met in Canada through mutual friends in our local community. Our first conversation was so natural—it felt like we had known each other for years. I found him kind, respectful, and sincere. He says he was drawn to my calm nature and the way I carried myself. 

Q2: Can you share the story of your proposal/engagement? Was it a grand surprise or a quiet, intimate moment? 

It was a quiet, heartfelt moment. We had been discussing marriage seriously. One day, I was with my sisters, going to Crescent Beach, and there he was, standing with roses and a ring. He asked me to marry him in the most genuine and thoughtful way, and I absolutely loved it. 

Q3: Describe your wedding day for us. Did you have a favorite part of the wedding? 

Our wedding day was emotional and joyful. We had a fusion of traditions from both sides—Pakistani and Indian—and it felt like a celebration of love and unity. My favorite part was seeing both families together, celebrating as one. 

Q4: Tell us more about your reception.  

The reception was vibrant, with traditional music, heartfelt speeches, and lots of dancing. We tried to make it a reflection of our journey—multicultural, warm, and full of love. Everyone felt included and celebrated. 

Q5: How did you choose your wedding attire for the both of you? Were there any special considerations or sentimental elements?  

I wore a traditional Pakistani bridal lehenga in shades of red and gold, and he wore a sherwani in black with black shimmery embroidery. We wanted our outfits to reflect modesty, elegance, and our shared heritage. 

Q6: Were any traditions or customs particularly important to include in your wedding? 

Yes, we followed Islamic traditions throughout. The Nikah ceremony was the most important aspect, and we made sure to include dua, recitations, and proper guidance from an Imam. 

Q7: Where did you honeymoon? 

We enjoyed a cozy honeymoon within Canada—a peaceful beach vacation in Tofino. It was quiet, relaxing, and gave us the chance to reflect and enjoy each other’s company. We’re planning a longer trip later, possibly to Italy or Turkey. 

Q8: Looking back, is there anything you would have done differently? 

Stress less and enjoy every moment – big and small. I was so focused on making each event perfect that I couldn’t enjoy them to the fullest. That is the only thing I’d do differently.  

Q9: What do you love the most about one another? 

I love his compassion and how grounded he is—he brings so much stability to my life. He says he loves my resilience and the way I love with my whole heart. 

Q10: How does it feel to be married, and what are you most looking forward to in this new chapter together? 

It feels like we’ve started a new journey—not just as partners, but as best friends building a life together. We’re most excited about starting a family and travelling the world together. 

Q11: If you could give one piece of advice to couples planning their wedding, what would it be? 

Don’t lose yourselves in the planning—stay focused on the meaning behind it all. 

Picture Courtesy: AMNA Photography

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